be a g.

greetings & salutations, lovelies.

we're already almost a full decade into the 21st century, so i'm hoping that anyone old enough to patronize the bohemian bliss boudoir is well aware that the g-spot (or, grafenberg spot, if you wanna get clinical) does exist, and that female ejaculation--while not highly visible, typically--is a scientifically documented phenomenon.

a quick google search even revealed some youtube footage of...well, who knows what. go find out.

if you're a fan of keepin' it real, alexyss tylor will hook you up. there's bound to be some commentary on all this in there somewhere. it's probably safe to infer that her references to "the bottom" have something to do with the g-spot, since hittin' the cervix will typically get you a punch in the face.

the point? the truth is out there. seek it.

kings: if you don't know the best way to hit your queen's sweet spot, find out. now. if you are in the know and she is woefully unaware, please put her on. when she can speak again, she'll thank you. trust me.

queens: if your consort is a great guy who's missing that special something, put him on. there are lots of ways to get there; don't be afraid of hands (trim those nails! you know better!), g-spot centered toys, veggies, etc and so on. figure it out yourself so you can teach him later. if you feel like it. i wouldn't blame you if you wanted to keep it your little secret.*

please understand that a porn star physique is not required. if length is an issue, prop yourselves up. pillows are your friend. so are yoga blocks & belts. experiment. get outta the bedroom and onto some sturdy chairs, tables...creativity is your friend.

and, as a cyber-acquaintance used to say, "you can never have enough lube".**

as always, remember that each of us are unique wonders of creation. g-spots are generally in the same position from woman to woman, but there are variations. some are pronounced and easily accessed. others might require some deep sea pearl diving.

finally, arousal is key. if you're new to this, please know it is not an undertaking for the after-the-club quickie. your first weekend away together? definitely. take your time, breathe, and bliss out.

as always, the sugar shack wishes you lascivious lovin and outstanding orgasms.

peace & blessings!



*you will not pee on yourself. that feeling means it's working. roll with it. rise above it. breathe through it. it will pass.

**something with a water or silicone base is best. k-y will do in a pinch, but is NOT meant for prolonged sensual encounters. the links to babeland and a woman's touch on the right hand menu can offer more information.