5.12.2010

friends with benefits



thoughts? stories?

could spark some blissful journaling, hmm?


2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Just had a very beautiful friends with benefit arrangement come to an end. I used to think that I could never be in one (and I did realize that I can be rather possesive while in the last FWB situation) but my last experience was freeing on so many levels and actually helped me overcome so sexual blockages.

Yet another case of don't knock it til you try it. :)

omi said...

indeed...

i definitely agree about the communication aspect abiola mentioned. both parties have to be willing to be completely open and honest - a good way of dealing with any relationship, but particularly when there's deep intimacy, but no "commitment" {in the traditional sense} to speak of.

as i mentioned to abiola on twitter, some of the most beautiful relationships i've had have been "fwb" situations. wouldn't change a thing.