12.06.2008

in the waiting room...

rihanna
"rehab"

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malcolm mclaren
"about her"


a higher vibration

greetings & salutations, beautiful people.

your friendly goddesses here at the maison de sucre have discovered a disturbing trend that we felt the need to share with our lovely guests.

while canvassing the web for sexy news, it became clear that the negativity surrounding love, relationships, and partnership in the united snakes* is clear, present and prolific.

no wonder the divorce rate's so high, the babies are struggling, and antidepressants are selling like ginseng and jyotishmati oughta be.

we've got to do better. where's the love?!?!?? you might find it in blogs and books, but where's the media dialogue on how we can become bigger, better, faster, stronger microcosms of the macrocosm**?

we all need love, whether it's from family, friends, or lovers. love prompts activism. love fuels change. when you love unconditionally and fully, from a place of security and understanding, you open spiritually and your reality becomes a vastly different place.

so, do something. now. no picket sign necessary.

pleasure yourself.
compliment a stranger.
hug someone you love. or find this guy.
do something good for your 'hood.
kiss a baby.
if you feel you cannot love, heal.

blessed as we are, good news about how we're gettin' down shouldn't be a needle in a haystack.

go out and make that news, sugarpies. pretty please?




*we are, after all, down with the red, black and green.
**oh. you didn't know you were a star, star?

quickie!

the fashions of sessi edi.

benin, stand up!



12.03.2008

bejeweled

in the interest of promoting sensual enlightenment, your devoted proprietress felt she would be remiss if she did not suggest that all the empresses out there consider crafting or purchasing a set of waist beads.

of course, they are de rigueur for our professional temptresses, but afrikan women have used these beads for everything from enticement {imagine a human shekere or tambourine...} to spiritual protection.

they also promote a very specific level of sensual awareness essential for boosting one's swagger.

it doesn't matter if you're 120 or 220 lbs--this is a pleasurable gift you can give yourself. it's completely up to you whether, when, and how you share it.

if you're so inclined, go on and string them up yourself. small glass beads* on a simple but quality cotton thread are best.

if crafting is not your steez, go and get you some.

once you've gotten used to wearing them, you'll wonder how you ever got along without them.

you can thank us later.

peace!



*e or seed beads. see these examples.



quickie!

a booty clap tutorial.

we do it for the people.



in the waiting room...



debarge
"stay with me"


Baby you can't go on
wondering where you belong
Let me help you find yourself
You don't need nobody else

Aw, you should be right with me babe,
Instead of going around this frantic town
and start messin' around
With all the lonely, lonely people out there
No one to care, won't you come stay with me
because I love you so

You tell me you love me so
Why do you have to go
Everything you'll ever need
You will find right here with me

Aw, you should be
Aw, you should be right with me babe,
Instead of going around this frantic town and start messin' around
With all the lonely, lonely people out there
No one to care, won't you come stay with me because I love you so

Stay with me, stay with me, stay with me
Stay with me, stay with me, stay with me
Stay with me, stay with me, stay with me

Aw, you should be with me babe,
Aw, you shouldn't go nowhere
And all I'm trying to tell you babe,
Is happiness is waiting for you

So won't you stay with me,
Stay with me
So won't you stay with me,
Stay with me
I got what you need,
Stay with me
So won't you stay with me
Stay with me
Don't don't nowhere baby, don't go no, no
Oh, I got what you need
So won't you stay with me
Stay with me

Don't go, don't go, I love you so
Don't go, don't go, I love you so
Don't go, don't go, I love you so


sexy news

an interesting take on redheads, and an evenhanded response.

uk survey reveals disturbing teen sexual abuse trends

be happier or have more sex? hmmm...can't retirees have both?

hip hop = violence, now avatars = divorce, apparently.

living and loving



12.02.2008

get yours.

allow me to introduce ms. christa bell performing her piece, "if you don't come".

consider yourselves schooled.





be a g.

greetings & salutations, lovelies.

we're already almost a full decade into the 21st century, so i'm hoping that anyone old enough to patronize the bohemian bliss boudoir is well aware that the g-spot (or, grafenberg spot, if you wanna get clinical) does exist, and that female ejaculation--while not highly visible, typically--is a scientifically documented phenomenon.

a quick google search even revealed some youtube footage of...well, who knows what. go find out.

if you're a fan of keepin' it real, alexyss tylor will hook you up. there's bound to be some commentary on all this in there somewhere. it's probably safe to infer that her references to "the bottom" have something to do with the g-spot, since hittin' the cervix will typically get you a punch in the face.

the point? the truth is out there. seek it.

kings: if you don't know the best way to hit your queen's sweet spot, find out. now. if you are in the know and she is woefully unaware, please put her on. when she can speak again, she'll thank you. trust me.

queens: if your consort is a great guy who's missing that special something, put him on. there are lots of ways to get there; don't be afraid of hands (trim those nails! you know better!), g-spot centered toys, veggies, etc and so on. figure it out yourself so you can teach him later. if you feel like it. i wouldn't blame you if you wanted to keep it your little secret.*

please understand that a porn star physique is not required. if length is an issue, prop yourselves up. pillows are your friend. so are yoga blocks & belts. experiment. get outta the bedroom and onto some sturdy chairs, tables...creativity is your friend.

and, as a cyber-acquaintance used to say, "you can never have enough lube".**

as always, remember that each of us are unique wonders of creation. g-spots are generally in the same position from woman to woman, but there are variations. some are pronounced and easily accessed. others might require some deep sea pearl diving.

finally, arousal is key. if you're new to this, please know it is not an undertaking for the after-the-club quickie. your first weekend away together? definitely. take your time, breathe, and bliss out.

as always, the sugar shack wishes you lascivious lovin and outstanding orgasms.

peace & blessings!



*you will not pee on yourself. that feeling means it's working. roll with it. rise above it. breathe through it. it will pass.

**something with a water or silicone base is best. k-y will do in a pinch, but is NOT meant for prolonged sensual encounters. the links to babeland and a woman's touch on the right hand menu can offer more information.