new treats!

beloveds, allow us to draw your attention to the sidebar...

new to the goodies list is hips and curves--sexy lingerie for full figured ladies.  just in time for the gift-giving season!

you might also be interested in some emerging erotica at ancestral carnal rituals, queen huney's words and wares, or the delicious kinky courtesan, all of which are listed in the more love section.

finally, in the interest of inclusion and consciousness raising, there are a couple of new woman, wtf questions and the girl effect now has a place in the serious side.

for a full breakdown of these features, feel free to revisit the grand tour.

enjoy!

the headwrap: yet another african survival

brought to you by the motherland and the millions transported during the middle passage.

peep this excerpt on the cultural differences between methods of head-covering:

Tying a piece of cloth around the head is not specific to any one cultural group. Men and women have worn and continue to wear some type of fabric head covering in many societies. What does appear to be culturally specific, however, is the way the fabric is worn; in other words, the style in which the fabric is worn is the ultimate cultural marker. Here, .style" is not used to mean a particular fashion. Rather, I use the term to mean a studied way of presenting the self-an idea of how one ought to appear before others. In order to explore this concept, careful note must be taken of the significant difference between the style of cloth head coverings as worn by white women and the headwrap as styled by black women.

To wrap her head, a European or white American woman simply folds a square piece of fabric into a triangular shape and covers her hair by tying the fabric under her chin; or, less often, by tying it at the nape of the neck. In either case, the untied points of fabric are left to fall down over the back of the head. The Euro American style results in a head covering which flattens against the head and encloses the face, and thus visually seems to pull the head down. The terms "scarf" or "kerchief" usually denote this type of head covering. Scarves are not particularly popular items of white American women's fashion today, but when they are worn, they consistently are arranged in the manner just described.

By contrast, a woman of African ancestry folds the fabric into a rectilinear shape rather than into a triangle. The most significant difference between the Euro- American and Afro-centric manner of styling the cloth is that rather than tying the knot under her chin, the African American woman usually ties the knots somewhere on the crown of her head, either at the top or on the sides, often tucking the ends into the wrap.

Although the African American woman sometimes ties the fabric at the nape of the neck, her form of styling always leaves her forehead and neck exposed; and, by leaving her face open, the headwrap visually enhances the facial features. The African American headwrap thus works as a regal coronet, drawing the onlooker's gaze up, rather than down. In effect, African and African American women wear the headwrap as a queen might wear a crown. In this way the headwrap corresponds to African and African American women's manner of hair styling, wherein the hair is pulled so as to expose the forehead and is often drawn to a heightened mass on top of the head. In striking comparison, the scarf worn by white women emulates the way in which the hair of people of European ancestry naturally grows: falling downward and often arranged to cover the forehead.

{viewed on sistren rising's blog.}

bejeweled

in the interest of promoting sensual enlightenment, your devoted proprietress felt she would be remiss if she did not suggest that all the empresses out there consider crafting or purchasing a set of waist beads.

of course, they are de rigueur for our professional temptresses, but afrikan women have used these beads for everything from enticement {imagine a human shekere or tambourine...} to spiritual protection.

they also promote a very specific level of sensual awareness essential for boosting one's swagger.

it doesn't matter if you're 120 or 220 lbs--this is a pleasurable gift you can give yourself. it's completely up to you whether, when, and how you share it.

if you're so inclined, go on and string them up yourself. small glass beads* on a simple but quality cotton thread are best.

if crafting is not your steez, go and get you some.

once you've gotten used to wearing them, you'll wonder how you ever got along without them.

you can thank us later.

peace!



*e or seed beads. see these examples.