for the bliss of it...

some sistas have a frank talk about the good stuff...

and if the weekend rain is putting you in the mood for some hot stories, check out the updated stories at ancestral carnal rituals.

when is it too soon?

ms. abiola breaks it down for the ladies...

write your bliss

november is national novel writing month!

and if you have any trouble, there's always write or die...

get busy, beauties!

goddess food

a few weeks ago, your devoted proprietress was making her almost famous veggie chili and happened to cut into a red pepper so pretty it demanded documentation.





hey, if other folks can find jesus in a fish stick, we should be entitled to see the holy vulva in a bell pepper!

for you, valentine

whether you're in love, out of love, hopelessly bitter or overly optimistic, you'll find something to smile about in the city paper's valentines.

enjoy!

you're such a flirt.

greetings, illuminated ones.

it's been awhile, but, to paraphrase john lennon, life is what happens while you're making other plans.

let's take a moment to examine the idea of flirtation, hm?

flirting, like any other skill, is innate for some and learned for others. one excellent treatment of the topic can be found in mama gena's school of womanly arts. one of her best tips, in our opinion, is that we should refuse to confine flirtation to the bar scene or open mic night.

flirt with yourself. turn your most aggravating chore--dusting, for instance--into an appreciative survey of the beautiful things you've surrounded yourself with, the books you love, the gifts you've been given over the years.

flirt with your food. notice the sunny juiciness of fruit. appreciate the labor and love that went into the preparation. smile to yourself as you dig into your dessert.

flirt with the universe! take your desires--no matter how "impossible"--and roll them around in your mind like a cat toys with a ball of string. hear them out. pull them to their logical conclusion and beyond.

you might be surprised at what you discover.

quickie!

the fabulous tangerine jones shakes her thang thang to the classic babalu



lesson learned: you ain't gotta be a size 0 to kick it.

global orgasm for peace ~ 12.21.2008

yes, you read that right. global orgasm for peace.

why?

to effect positive change in the energy field of the Earth through input of the largest possible instantaneous surge of human biological, mental and spiritual energy.

there are more reasons under the "3 reasons" tab on the site. there's even a blog.

find out your local O time here.

east coast: 7:04am
west coast: 4:04am
chicago: 6:04am

who says activism isn't blissful?

quickie!

prop 8 - the musical!

bejeweled

in the interest of promoting sensual enlightenment, your devoted proprietress felt she would be remiss if she did not suggest that all the empresses out there consider crafting or purchasing a set of waist beads.

of course, they are de rigueur for our professional temptresses, but afrikan women have used these beads for everything from enticement {imagine a human shekere or tambourine...} to spiritual protection.

they also promote a very specific level of sensual awareness essential for boosting one's swagger.

it doesn't matter if you're 120 or 220 lbs--this is a pleasurable gift you can give yourself. it's completely up to you whether, when, and how you share it.

if you're so inclined, go on and string them up yourself. small glass beads* on a simple but quality cotton thread are best.

if crafting is not your steez, go and get you some.

once you've gotten used to wearing them, you'll wonder how you ever got along without them.

you can thank us later.

peace!



*e or seed beads. see these examples.

quickie!

a booty clap tutorial.

we do it for the people.

be a g.

greetings & salutations, lovelies.

we're already almost a full decade into the 21st century, so i'm hoping that anyone old enough to patronize the bohemian bliss boudoir is well aware that the g-spot (or, grafenberg spot, if you wanna get clinical) does exist, and that female ejaculation--while not highly visible, typically--is a scientifically documented phenomenon.

a quick google search even revealed some youtube footage of...well, who knows what. go find out.

if you're a fan of keepin' it real, alexyss tylor will hook you up. there's bound to be some commentary on all this in there somewhere. it's probably safe to infer that her references to "the bottom" have something to do with the g-spot, since hittin' the cervix will typically get you a punch in the face.

the point? the truth is out there. seek it.

kings: if you don't know the best way to hit your queen's sweet spot, find out. now. if you are in the know and she is woefully unaware, please put her on. when she can speak again, she'll thank you. trust me.

queens: if your consort is a great guy who's missing that special something, put him on. there are lots of ways to get there; don't be afraid of hands (trim those nails! you know better!), g-spot centered toys, veggies, etc and so on. figure it out yourself so you can teach him later. if you feel like it. i wouldn't blame you if you wanted to keep it your little secret.*

please understand that a porn star physique is not required. if length is an issue, prop yourselves up. pillows are your friend. so are yoga blocks & belts. experiment. get outta the bedroom and onto some sturdy chairs, tables...creativity is your friend.

and, as a cyber-acquaintance used to say, "you can never have enough lube".**

as always, remember that each of us are unique wonders of creation. g-spots are generally in the same position from woman to woman, but there are variations. some are pronounced and easily accessed. others might require some deep sea pearl diving.

finally, arousal is key. if you're new to this, please know it is not an undertaking for the after-the-club quickie. your first weekend away together? definitely. take your time, breathe, and bliss out.

as always, the sugar shack wishes you lascivious lovin and outstanding orgasms.

peace & blessings!



*you will not pee on yourself. that feeling means it's working. roll with it. rise above it. breathe through it. it will pass.

**something with a water or silicone base is best. k-y will do in a pinch, but is NOT meant for prolonged sensual encounters. the links to babeland and a woman's touch on the right hand menu can offer more information.

quickie!

check out the one minute writer.

don't worry. we'll keep the massage oils warm while you're gone.

peace

...and welcome to the grand opening of the bohemian sugar shack.

{don't worry. we're holistically minded here. that sugar can be agave nectar, turbinado, or just plain ol' honey. whatever floats your solar barque, king}

this blog is the result of a blissfully hilarious conversation between two best friends, and will hopefully morph into the pleasurably sensual musings of several women and the men who love them.

cum back often, and comment frequently. we wanna have some fun, open some minds, and spark some conversations.

bless.