wanna know more about polyamory?

here ya go!

while the article itself is centered around folks in boston, there's some good general information as well.

happy reading!

a love note

or a little afternoon delight, if you prefer.

we shared a quote from mama and some recommended reading over on facebook.  go see!

sexy news

organic sex? sounds good to us!

is this all too triflin and confused*, or a step in the right direction? ...lds and gay members

sounds like common sense, right? but we all know that's not so common...


*reference at about the 5:20 mark.

sex work, migration, and anti-trafficking

it's always more complicated than we think it is...

in this interview, two women critically discuss the intersections of sex work and migration.

from nandita sharma:

Basically, there is a fundamental disagreement between those who want to end sex work and those who want to make sex work safer for women. The fundamental disagreement is whether or not women have the right to engage in sex work. Most people in the anti-trafficking camp believe that there is no way that women can ever engage in sex work without being fundamentally exploited. I disagree with that, as do most sex workers’ organizations. Most of them point out that sex work can be made safer, can be made more dignified – and the way to do that is to stop demonizing those who are engaged in it. Along with decriminalizing sex work, we can support union organizing within the sex industry. [...] We need to understand sex work as one of the options available to women in a capitalist economy. We need to work, and sex work is a viable option for many women.

Ultimately, if we want to end the exploitation of women, we need to challenge capitalism, which is the basis for all of our exploitation.

from jessica yee:

First, a meaningful way to struggle for justice is to actually work with sex workers. Take their lead, just like you would with any other ally-based movement. Second, we have to address people’s great unwillingness to talk about sex and sexuality more generally. Without these conversations people will have a difficult time coming to terms with real trafficking and real exploitation.

We need to have frank discussions about sex work, and about sex and sexuality more generally. These topics are particularly taboo in Indigenous communities. This is because colonization is such a real presence for us. And if you’re going to take away a people’s most powerful abilities, you’re also going to take away their sexuality, which is why I think we have members of our own communities who conflate “trafficking” with sex work and assume it is all “bad for women.” We’re in survival mode and trying to keep our communities together, trying to keep our communities free of violence, and ain’t nobody helpin’ us!

this one is full of quotables...we suggest reading it in full in addition to checking out some of the sex work organization links listed on the serious side sidebar.  

keep questioning.

in the waiting room...

jesse boykins iii
amorous

sorry, lyrics not available

reclaim. renew. become.

saw this link posted on facebook this morning, and thought it would be a little something wonderful to share with you all...

They say that it was the Great Mother in all of her forms that taught them how to be women and how create balance within their lives. They heard Her voice in the whisperings of the wind. They experienced Her purifying qualities by washing in the ocean. They felt Her grounding qualities as they enjoyed taking steps upon Her earth element.

In connecting with the Great Mother in Nature they were able to connect with the Great Mother, the Goddess, the Great Mother within themselves.

find god in yourselves, beloveds, and love her fiercely.