quickie!

once again, bianca's dropping jewels in her newest article: "what do we know about open relationships?"

sexy spicy love magic

racialicious is one of our favorite spots to hang out, but this post is one after our own heart.

from ms plaid's razor sharp analysis to her brief but poignant observation on using "voodoo" in vain, we couldn't agree more. 

here's a sample:

Comparatively speaking, race play has an unvarnished honesty about it; this particular organization and its programs work with some racial disingenuousness under the guise of integration, of wanting to “make everyone ”comfortable” so they can fulfill their “wildest fantasies.” I’m not sure about who exactly is supposed to be “everyone” because, even though the site may be open to different sexual and gender identities, the majority of photos on the site are of white people or very, very light-skinned PoCs. And just saying you want PoCs to join doesn’t make the wish so, especially when the pictures and texts say a thousand contradictory and uncomfortable things.

go on and read the rest here.

stay woke, y'all.

quickie!

follow the southern honeys on their journey...a powerful collective of sistas creating, traveling and manifesting together!

playing with fire

porn is one thing. and just about everyone loves a good parody.

but this {link not work safe} not the cosbys thing seems to be crossing a line...

the least they could have done was consider a parody of a show where all the characters are grown folks, e.g. sanford and son or roc.

aren't there already enough "teen" porn sites out there?

do we really need to play with the idea of pedophilia when childhood sexual abuse is rampant?

is this dangerous in a culture where, even in the 21st century, no one wants to talk about effective, comprehensive, age-appropriate sex education?

we're all for grown folks having grown folks fun, but this feels like something very, very different.

inspiration...

you know what, mes petites? we really are out there.

learning.

living out loud.

striving for beauty.

surviving.

you're not alone, or weird, or aberrant.

you're just waking up. and it's ok.

we'll be here to listen to your dreams...

sexy news

debunking cockblocking stereotypes: the real deal on native american sexuality

good ol' american schizophrenia: gay marriage bans hold up around the nation

for the (secure) fellas: prostate 101

from the looking glass: a man discusses pussy power

and, well, i guess it didn't hurt...