12.03.2008

quickie!

a booty clap tutorial.

we do it for the people.



in the waiting room...



debarge
"stay with me"


Baby you can't go on
wondering where you belong
Let me help you find yourself
You don't need nobody else

Aw, you should be right with me babe,
Instead of going around this frantic town
and start messin' around
With all the lonely, lonely people out there
No one to care, won't you come stay with me
because I love you so

You tell me you love me so
Why do you have to go
Everything you'll ever need
You will find right here with me

Aw, you should be
Aw, you should be right with me babe,
Instead of going around this frantic town and start messin' around
With all the lonely, lonely people out there
No one to care, won't you come stay with me because I love you so

Stay with me, stay with me, stay with me
Stay with me, stay with me, stay with me
Stay with me, stay with me, stay with me

Aw, you should be with me babe,
Aw, you shouldn't go nowhere
And all I'm trying to tell you babe,
Is happiness is waiting for you

So won't you stay with me,
Stay with me
So won't you stay with me,
Stay with me
I got what you need,
Stay with me
So won't you stay with me
Stay with me
Don't don't nowhere baby, don't go no, no
Oh, I got what you need
So won't you stay with me
Stay with me

Don't go, don't go, I love you so
Don't go, don't go, I love you so
Don't go, don't go, I love you so


sexy news

an interesting take on redheads, and an evenhanded response.

uk survey reveals disturbing teen sexual abuse trends

be happier or have more sex? hmmm...can't retirees have both?

hip hop = violence, now avatars = divorce, apparently.

living and loving



12.02.2008

get yours.

allow me to introduce ms. christa bell performing her piece, "if you don't come".

consider yourselves schooled.





be a g.

greetings & salutations, lovelies.

we're already almost a full decade into the 21st century, so i'm hoping that anyone old enough to patronize the bohemian bliss boudoir is well aware that the g-spot (or, grafenberg spot, if you wanna get clinical) does exist, and that female ejaculation--while not highly visible, typically--is a scientifically documented phenomenon.

a quick google search even revealed some youtube footage of...well, who knows what. go find out.

if you're a fan of keepin' it real, alexyss tylor will hook you up. there's bound to be some commentary on all this in there somewhere. it's probably safe to infer that her references to "the bottom" have something to do with the g-spot, since hittin' the cervix will typically get you a punch in the face.

the point? the truth is out there. seek it.

kings: if you don't know the best way to hit your queen's sweet spot, find out. now. if you are in the know and she is woefully unaware, please put her on. when she can speak again, she'll thank you. trust me.

queens: if your consort is a great guy who's missing that special something, put him on. there are lots of ways to get there; don't be afraid of hands (trim those nails! you know better!), g-spot centered toys, veggies, etc and so on. figure it out yourself so you can teach him later. if you feel like it. i wouldn't blame you if you wanted to keep it your little secret.*

please understand that a porn star physique is not required. if length is an issue, prop yourselves up. pillows are your friend. so are yoga blocks & belts. experiment. get outta the bedroom and onto some sturdy chairs, tables...creativity is your friend.

and, as a cyber-acquaintance used to say, "you can never have enough lube".**

as always, remember that each of us are unique wonders of creation. g-spots are generally in the same position from woman to woman, but there are variations. some are pronounced and easily accessed. others might require some deep sea pearl diving.

finally, arousal is key. if you're new to this, please know it is not an undertaking for the after-the-club quickie. your first weekend away together? definitely. take your time, breathe, and bliss out.

as always, the sugar shack wishes you lascivious lovin and outstanding orgasms.

peace & blessings!



*you will not pee on yourself. that feeling means it's working. roll with it. rise above it. breathe through it. it will pass.

**something with a water or silicone base is best. k-y will do in a pinch, but is NOT meant for prolonged sensual encounters. the links to babeland and a woman's touch on the right hand menu can offer more information.




11.29.2008

quickie!

before you light those candles to set the mood, make sure you're using the right colors...



11.26.2008

in the waiting room...



Beautiful otherness
Love you because of this
Lost in the loveliness
Of your beautiful otherness

Beautiful otherness
I found myself rodderless
You gave me foreverness
And your beautiful otherness
yeah, yeah, yeah

Beautiful otherness
Beautiful otherness

Beautiful otherness
Kind hearts and coronets
Safe in the warm caress
Of your beautiful otherness

Yeah, yeah, yeah
Beautiful otherness
Ah yeah

When you're right, when you're right,
When you're right, right, right with me
In your, your beautiful
Beautiful otherness
So very beautiful to me
It's your, it's your beautiful otherness
Beautiful otherness
Otherness

Beautiful otherness

Beautiful otherness

When you're right, when you're right
When you're right, right, right with me

Beautiful otherness

When you're right, when you're right,
When you're right, right, right with me


11.23.2008

kama sutra



if you have not seen this movie, please do yourself a favor and check it out...


11.21.2008

11.20.2008

quickie!

love yo' self

...and let the church say ahhhhhhmen!